APNA CHAACHA NEHRUU

RemeMbeR , No maTTer HOw baD Ur HeArt is broKen the woRld woNT stOp for U..
so KeeP WalKinG

ATTITUDE DECIDES LIFE

Most PeOple are dissatisfied with their life, they are searching for things that even they dont know what...
they look out to other peoples life, make comparisons...

I know an elderly women, a senior grade govt servant and also an LIC agent, has a very good family children doing quite well,, but still she is not satisfied with her life.
she is craving for something BIG and very miserably fails to realise her valued life and for that reason she fails to enjoy her life, always looking and searching for something which she doesnt achieve, just because she doesn't know what she is looking for.

what a pity, many of us live our lifes like this,
we are not sure where we should go, what we should do...
we just think we are never full, we lack things and just go on comparing with other people..
You find People with this attitude everywhere around you, spend some minutes with them and you will start feeling weary and tired..
You also start thinking like them; there is something lacking in my life.

As I say this a nice story popped up -
Two cows were grazing as they saw a milk van passing by, in it were written " Milka milk - the best natural milk, with vitamin A and Vitamin B+"
Seeing this one cow told another " Did you see that, I knew we lacked something, we have some problem".

There is a very dirty stupid irrational preaching style adopted by Pentecosts, they distribute leaflets to people describing every human as born dirt worms and demonish satans, they say everyone in this world are sinners and are going to have a very bad life and will never achieve in life, unless and until they join their mission.
What a pity..
but its a marketing trick, they first picture people as downtrodden weak and create an insecurity feeling in their minds.
By this act they attract those weak minded people, who believe there is something lacking in their lives and they are not having a good life.
such people don't believe in themselves, but they believe in those leaflets else.
And there comes the mission for their help, What a very nasty dirty way to preach a religion, pitiful.

coming back
There is only one thing to remember,,

LIFE IS PRECIOUS, DON'T WASTE IT, ENJOY LIFE

and to achieve an enjoyable life, make it a point that you will do only things that you enjoy doing or go for a profession where you love being.


DONT CHEAT YOURSELF,, DONT KILL YOURSELF

Dont ever,, Never choose professions just for the sake of it, dont go for engineering or medical profession just because it may earn you big bucks,, that way you are cheating yourself
you may earn bugs, but very soon you fall tired, tired of everything - the work, the world, your life, your spouse and yourself.

FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS

Do the thing you love doing the most,
choose that as your profession, that way you just grow everyday and grow beyond comparisons.
And anything and everything is marketable and of demand in todays world, so dont bother about some so-called high earning professions. Any work done with heart put in takes you up into heights you never knew before.


IF THE DOOR DON'T OPEN, USE ANOTHER KEY

Do only what you enjoy or do things in the way that you start love doing them. Change the format of those boring things and make them into things that suit your liking.
Its so simple just use that thing between your ears.
Just remember the story of Mark Twain - Tom sawyer and his whitewashing the fence.
he just changed the whole format and see what difference it bought.


YOU CANT REACH PLACES WITHOUT WALKING

People think a lot about their life and worry a lot BUT they mostly choose the way thats most common and used.
People just think but don't walk their life, they just sit there thinking and dreaming of their future prospects, if i do that then I can be this and
they just dream but don't walk.

If you want to reach the place you have to start walking..

Some start walking but when they see the thorns and stones on the pavement they stop and start thinking, then they sit and think and they fall asleep. (Dreamer)
some go forward ignoring the stones and thorns, but they get hurt and go back halfway and never return. (Emotion driven)
some stop there waiting for someone else to come and show them a way without hurting (Imitator)
people may come and walk the road ahead without hurting,seeing this he may also start walking but get hurt, because he did not have the shoes made of iron (experience and faith) as others who walked ahead.

Some people who walk, don't stop seeing the stones and thorns but just take small deviation route and join the main route as it gets smoother, he walks on as he has the power of knowledge and belief in him.
(walker) Whatever you do, dont stop walking


BELIEF AND KNOWLEDGE

The one thing that gets you into top is BELIEF, believe in GOD or believe in yourself,
both helps,
but belief in GOD helps a lot more

People who deny GOD are just lazy enough to think beyond or are in the box of misconceptions.
Don't,,; NEVER create boxes, walls around you, they just constrict and restrict your thoughts.
Miracles do happen only when you start believing in miracles, believe and see the difference, is just what can be said.
For people who don't understand and believe the world of ignorance belongs to them.

Never label anything good or bad, accept everything as they are.
Everything in the world are knowledge banks.
Just learn them, experiment with them and you will find the beauty of knowledge then you will start realising the power of knowledge.
Restricting knowledge, ignoring them just blinds you.You will never gain anything from restricting any knowledge, but will only loose.

You will only earn when you start accepting and knowing them.

Knowledge is light, create the attitude to know things - inquisition.
With the new light of knowledge we will start seeing new ways which we never thought existed.
Its like us, standing in dark stranded without knowing where to go
and a sudden lightning give us the vision of the way, the road ahead and the possibilities in front of us.

God is such a Knowledge Bank, learn, experiment, realise and enjoy.
With belief on your heart keep walking, and you will find miracles on the way, doors will open up for you..

Life is So siMple, DonT maKe it ComPlicaTed

A husband wakes up at home with a huge hangover.

He forces himself to open his eyes, and the first thing he seesis a couple of aspirins and a glass of water on the side table. He sits down and sees his clothing in front of him, all clean and pressed. He looks around the room and sees that it is in perfect order, spotless, clean. So is the rest of the house.

"Honey, breakfast is on the table, I left early to go grocery shopping. Love You!"

Totally shocked with the note , he goes to the kitchen and His son is also at the table, eating. He asks,

"Son, what happened last night?"

His son says,

"Well, you came home around 3 AM, drunk and delirious. Broke some crockery, puked in the hall, and gave yourself a black eye when you stumbled into the door".

Confused, the man asks,

"So, why is everything in order and so clean, and breakfast is on the table waiting for me?
I should expect a big quarrel with her!"

His son replies,

"Oh, that! Mom dragged you to the bedroom, and when she tried to take your clothes n shoes off, you said,

"LADY LEAVE ME ALONE! I'M MARRIED!"

Moral

There are truly some things that both money and Mastercard can't buy

Its a bit late.... too late to respond to something that happened on the New Year Eve of 2007, so I'm not really responding to that,but that night I was chatting online with my friend Manu (Tinku) about the incident and he told me that was the effect of mob psychology, but I really dont go with him on that idea, because going through the mind and psychological aspects of mob, eventhough it cant be said so... coz it all depends upon the personality and character of the persons in the act, for the reason that the a mob is teasing women you wont be a part and wont appreciate that unless and until you also have the desire to do that deep inside your mind and hence take part in that psychopathic (pathetic - thinking how far can people go down and act atrociously without conscience) act.

No one will or can do a thing unless and until he really needs and wants to do that no matter what his condition is.,drugged , intoxicated or whatever. Its that animal deep within that comes out when it gets the opportunity. Its the animal called subconscious mind, how you have molded him.

This poem or watever u may call is composed by joining every movie name of 10th IFFK (International Film Festival Kerala)

I am a runner & I have to run
a long run like crazy through
the roads under the skies
along the wind that strikes barley
raising the dust, hearing the sounds of sand
hearing the whisper of Gods in my mind
I have to run a long run
look both ways and run..

I know when the road bends
it is the checkpoint for me by the creator
But I wont stop and go offside
I will run like the one from bow

I wont cling on to Yesterday and
end up in human conditions of
The great depression and Whisky
leaving behind the still life
tearing off waiting calender
I have to rise and shine
as no angels fall
whether my opportunities are
Full or Empty

I will rise and shine
because I have 1000 days and a dream -
the murmer of my heart;
I know life on earth is a journey
which forever flows
not waiting for happiness and golden doors
but always closer to something like happiness

It has been since the age of Earth
and life will forever flow
But I have to run for my
1000 days and a dream
coz life is a diamond

TATA NANO - the One Lakh Car

Heavily expected and awaited TATA's 1 lakh rupees car has launched finally after its political hypes and other issues.> This is the World's cheapest car ever to be launched, cheapest car in China costs around l 1,75,000/- and in US costs around 1,50,000/- in rupees.

Only Rs.1 Lac (Rs.100,000/-) KD666.000 (Kuwait Dinar) $ 2,222.00

TATA calls this as the car for the common man.

Even though it is the base model that comes for 1 lakh rupees with no-frills like Airconditioning,power steering and power windows it is still a car for four and gives 20 kmpl as said by the company. NANO is Barath stage 3 and Euro 4 compliant. It is 20% bigger than Maruti 800 and has its engine on the rear.
On road price may go upto 1,30,000/- and model with A/C and other features (Blue coloured one) can be around upto 2,00,000/- or more.

Booking has not yet started for this common mans car but there is an immense rush for it. It is expected to be the NEXT BIG thing after the Maruti 800 and its also predicted to have a waiting period of 1or 2 years to reach the consumers hand after booking because of this immense rush.

The car is expected to sale high in the sector of society where people are waiting to get out of their bikes into the cars.

The lack of good and wide roads and pollution hazards are pointed out and protests also started out as there can be a situation of High rise in car population. So the car will be a success only after the issues of Singur factory (the propoesd factory for NANO) is well settled.

Your life - your likes - you decide!!!

Let me tell you all a story

A long time ago, there was an Emperor who told his horseman that if hecould ride on his horse and cover as much land area as he likes, then the Emperor would give him the area of land he has covered. Sure enough, the horseman quickly jumped onto his horse and rode as fast as possible to cover as much land area as he could. He kept on riding and riding, whipping the horse to go as fast as possible. When he was hungry or tired, he did not stop because he wanted to cover as much area as possible. And heCame to a point when he had covered a substantial area and both he and the horse were exhausted and was dying.

Then he asked himself, "Why did I push myself so hard to cover so much land area? Now I am dying and I only need a very small area to bury myself."

The above chineese folkore is similar with the journey of our Life.

We push very hard everyday to make more money, to gain power and recognition.

We neglect our health , time with our family and to appreciate the surrounding beauty and the hobbies we love. One day when we look back , we will realize that we don't really need that much, but then we cannot turn back time for what we have missed.

Life is not about making money, acquiring power or recognition.

Life is definitely not about work!

Work is only necessary to keep us living so as to enjoy the beauty and pleasures of life. Life is a balance of Work and Play , Family and Personal time . You have to decide how you want to balance your Life. Define your priorities, realize what you are able to compromise but always let some of your decisions be based on your instincts. Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of Life, the whole aim of human existence.

So, take it easy, do what you want to do and appreciate nature. Life is fragile, Life is short. Do not take Life for granted. Live a balanced lifestyle and enjoy Life!

Watch your thoughts ; they become words.

Watch your words ; they become actions.

Watch your actions ; they become habits.

Watch your habits; they become character.

Watch your character; it becomes your destiny --

Smile in pleasure, smile in pain;

Smile when trouble pours like rain;

Smile wen someone hurts U,Smile coz someone cares 4 U.

Keep Smiling :)

They slept together......

morning...she was no where....

he searched ...... jst to find written on
DESERT SANDS

" Some people are like names written on sand, a small wind can wipe them off ; forever "

We still live

Why are we born?
Are we born to live or to die?
All life ends in death, if so do we all live to die?
Then why were we born?
Did anyone asked our opinion before we were born?
Will anyone ever ask before we die?


Manushyan jeevikanano marikanano janikunnathu?
Ella jeevithathinumoduvil oru maranamundu, appol nammal marikkanalle jeevikunnathu?
Pinnenthinu naam janichu?
Aarengillum nammodu chodicho nammale janipikkunathinu munne?
Aarengillum nammodu chodikummo naam marikunnathinu munne?


Can u explain......Anyone? this ridiculous rubbish??nonsense?

(Inspired from one of the great rebellious groups, clad..the world has ever seen
-------The Flowerchildren).

Who are you????

Who are you??

Any answer ??
Who am I ??

The answer ---

Deho na ham (I’m not the body)
Koham ? (Kaha Aham? Then who am I?? )
Soham (Saha Aham)

I am who I am --- realize this

Evolution

There are two steps to evolution ---

Evolving from

BEING SOMEBODY (Ahambhavi)
To
NOBODY (Ahamkari)

And from Nobody
To
EVERYBODY (Vasudhaivatham)



Urangunnavar Urangatte........................
Avarkku Urangaan kazhiyunallo

Unarnnavar Unaratte
Avarkku Unaraan kazhinjallo

- -But they still sleep

Mind


Mind is by default +ve. ,, but we make it -ve and increase –ve intensity by attaching our mind to –ve thoughts like prejudice inhibitions and mingling with people who are personifications of negativity...

Avoid such people, situations and thoughts. Dont struggle and make your mind miserable.

Always maintain a healthy and positive mind.
Think healthy be healthy.


I believe


I used to think that I cant go on
Life was nothing but full of sorrows
But now I know the meaning of true love
If I dream it, I can see it, I can do it
If I just believe there is nothing true than it

I believe I can fly
I believe I can touch the sky
Spread my wings and fly away.....



Questions

Every answer to all the questions in this world can be found in your own mind .....
Why??
The answer is simple, because all the questions in the world rose from some mind itself, all you have to do is to ask the right question to get the right answer.
Which is the most difficult task in the universe, but the most simple also.. As simple and hard are the categorized divisions given by the thinking wavelengths of human mind. It depends on the varying wavelength of human mind, thoughts.

So think and find the answers

Hum bhool gaye

Hum bhool gaye hain rakh ke kahi
Woh cheez jise Dil kehathe hai

Ummeed bhi ajnabi lagti hain
Aur dard paraya lagta hai
Aiyeene mein jisko dekhta tha
Bichda huva saaya lagtha hai

Na jaane kaha chod aaye hai
Wo shaks jise hum jaanthe the
Aahat bhi sunaayi dethi nahi
Parchaayi se hum pehchaanthe the

Can you find peace of mind, I hear voices inside......
.............its far late I know.....but still


Krooramaaya 100 vaakukalalla
Snehikkunavarude nishabdathayaanu ettavum dukhipikkunathu

Jeevithathile ettavum valya nashtam maranam alla...
Athilum valuthanu jeevichirikumbol anubhavapedunna
Nirjeevathwam.
Ullil ninnum kaarnnu thinnuna thiraskaranam.....sneharahithyam.

Ente Chora thilakkunnu

Niklenge khoon jab milte hai talwar badan se
Niklenge khoon aur boond boond se niklenge talwar leke hum

Rok na pavoge tum Yeh man ki taakath hai
nakoi tan ya hathyaar ka

Mara huva tho ek hi hai,, par paida huva hazaarom hai
Na maronge tum jeeyenge tum
Hardam hamaare man mein

---Salaaam Saddam

2007


Varshangal ethrayo kadannu poyi .....
Iniyum ethrayo kaathirikunnu

( Uvvo? Atho athu verum thonnal maathramo?, Bhagavad geetha parayum pole lokathile ettavum valya albhutham??....Abatham?)

Enthayaalum,,
Kadanna varshangalil ninnum enthu nedi? Anubhavangal??
Lifexperiments?
Jeevitham enthu padipichu? Athil ethra ulkondu?

Njan aaru? Njan enthinu? (who am I?)

Ini enthu? (Asthitwa Dukham?)

2007 oru marupadi tharatte,, tharumaayirikkum..
ithanu – ee vishwaasamanu .. e pratheekshayaanu jeevithathinu nidhaanam, athu muruke pidichu kondu munnotu pokam.

Live aptly at present , Gaining from the experiences of the past for a better future...

Happy New Year

D Butterfly


I flew through mounts and Valleys

I flew through meadows and rivers

I flew through rainbow and the clouds

I flew through grass and flowers

I flew among animals and birds

And I flied

And I flied among humans...

and I was dead ....

Killed...

Jeevikunnathinidayil evideyo enikku jeevitham nashtapettu

Kadha ezhuthunathinidayil evideyo kadhayum

Ente lakshyam lakshyabodhamilaymaye thedalayi

Nashtangalente kalikoottukarayi

Swapnangal enikku mareechikayayi

hey, phoenix pakshi nee sathyamo midhyayo

Every time you walk out
Leaving me behind, ignoring me
You are tearing apart my flesh, my heart
You are killing me inch by inch

But if you enjoy it; go ahead
coz its for you that I exist

Passion

When you hold me in your arms

when your hands traverse through my body

when I renounce all the power to resist or to speak

when its utterly impoosible for me to live or to die

When a tear drop fell off my eyes; of pain or pleasure, I dont

its...........passion

(I Don't Know Why .... is something I wrote inspired of morning monsoon showers.I wrote it when I was in First year pre-degree,u can call it anything poem, prose or even
hordid crap, if u dont like it.)

I Don't Know Why ®

As I woke upon to the gentle rays of early sun,
I could feel myself surrounded with mist,
Or was I dreaming?

I don't know it was pleasant; it took me back, years back

when,
I don't know when
I don't remember I really did not want to.

I was still on the bed, I could smell the coffee.
Coffee always smells the same,

Why?
It was the same 15 years back I loved it then,
still I do, why?

I Don't Know Why,
No now I know why.

It was on the coffee shop that we first met,
Yeah;
well it was me who gave the first look
Like always,
But this time it did last for a long time

I Don't Know Why,
No now I know why.

It was her eyes those went deep in to my heart & mind.

The morning showers it’s chilling me those rain droplets I love them

I Don't Know Why,
No now I know why.

It was raining that day a Summer Rain
strange and unusual it was,
But I liked it,
Strange and unusual.

The birds are singing
I don't know what,
but nice and pleasant I like them

I Don't Know Why,
No now I know why.

It sounds like her, nice and pleasant always.

It’s raining hard, rains I've always loved them
the nice touch they give with their wet hands I loved them

I Don't Know Why,
No now I know why.

It was on a nice chilling rainy day that I felt her touch, with her wet hands.

Hmmm smells like toasted bread
Yeah you guessed it right I love its smell too
and

I Don't Know Why,
No now I know why.

We met everyday in the coffee shop
and ate pizzas no one told us to but we did,

But... now we don’t,
we don’t meet everyday in the coffee shop

Now you don't know why, right?

Ah again the nice smell of coffee.

“Good Morning”
Was it the bird or you?
“What? What happened? Day dreams?”
“No, just dreaming about you.”

I think now you know why.

? - JAX - ®