When someone asks -
what you were doing this long?
Where were you? Why didn’t you talk to me? Why you didn’t pick up the phone? Who is your friend? What is your relation? Are you avoiding me or are you really busy?
Irritating right... but why and who asks you all these?
Only someone who thinks they have the right to do.. right to ask you things..
Who gave them those rights?
If its your parents - you don’t have to give them, the right is there since your birth
If its your friends - you gave them the right, yes you did, may be you didn’t put the line where you should have put... you can do it still
If its your spouse/lover - Yes he or she needs to worry about those things, don’t they...
All these people have one thing in common -
they care for you, they need you, they think you as their dearest, you are the world to them.
People pester and keep asking repeatedly because you don’t give them the right answers...
There are two answers that can temporarily/permanently shut them up
Ø Shut the F*ck up, its my life and I will live the way I want it to, I dont want to explain anything to anyone
Ø Hear them, think for them, think for a minute why they are asking this and think from their side answer with the love and care they show to you..
I said temporarily because, those genuine souls will keep coming back to you no matter how harsh you treat them, but once you loose them then nothing in the world can fill the vacuum
When you live, be sure to show your emotions, do not hide them –
Show them all -
Fear, joy, love, sadness, surprise, anger, anxiety, apprehension, uneasiness, Worry, amusement, Ecstasy, bliss, elation, delight, excitement, thrill, fondness, attraction, adoration, sentimentality, caring, Arousal, desire, passion, infatuation, obsession, depression, unhappiness, insecurity, alienation, homesickness, embarrassment, humiliation, agitation, aggravation.
Do not hide them for anything or anyone. But be sure you show the right emotions at the right time to the right person. Just try living it this way and you will notice the difference show what goes through your mind, you will realize the change you will realize the change inside and around you.
Its from these emotions people understand who you really are, No one will go in try to dig in to your mind and soul to find how good you are inside, its what you show outside decides who you are inside.
Lets face it "Humans are emotional animals."
People need caring, love, pampering and teasing.
No one in this fast paced world is going to come around and ask you if you need love and caring, other than those who know you and those who care you.
But for others you have to show it out to others through your emotions what you need.
Problem with most of us is that we are shy to say “I need a hug”
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We tend to show off that we are all sons and daughters of Hercules the strong who doesn’t care the world and are brave to fight a lion, but even Hercules needed love and caring.
When there are people around us to give what we want, what we need to do is just put the hands forward and accept it. But we ignore them and take them for granted.
Keep Relations, Show Emotions
